Trust Issues

How do you build trust?

build

construct (something, typically something large) by putting parts or material together over a period of time.

Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding;

This scripture starts by saying trust in the lord with all your heart. I mean wow ALL is a big word. How many of us trust someone with all of us. Its hard to say because people fail us so much even at times we protect ourselves from family. Trust me with all your heart. how do you build this type of trust. Do you learn to have faith in God with all and everything you do in life with your job your family your kids your heart your everything? Trust is hard to have but like everything when your building sometimes it takes oneday at a time

Trust can be broken!

Matthew 26:34 Answered, "this very night, before the rooster crows, you will disown me three times."

bro·ken

having been fractured or damaged and no longer in one piece or in working order.

Trust can be broken! Just as face as you can build trust you can break trust. Lies, breaking promises, not being faithful, not doing what you say your going to do, not being consistent. Trust is something that you must do what you say keep your promises be faithful do what you say and have consistency in any relationship in order for it to not fail you must have trust. You cant continue on in a relationship without trust if not the relationship will stay broken.

Broken Trust Creates Fear, Worry, Insecurities

in·se·cu·ri·ty

uncertainty or anxiety about oneself; lack of confidence.

1 John 4:18

There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love

Fear, worry, and Insecurity formed when trust is broken. People become afraid that the person will do the same thing again, they dont believe them, they start seeing that person as a liar, it cause worry, mistrust, questioning , creates insecurities, i dont trust you , assumption things that wouldnt happen if trust wasnt broken

I have nothing to worry about 

confidence 
full trust; belief in the powers, trustworthiness, or reliability of a person or thing:

Trust


Proverbs 3:5 

Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.

Building trust can be hard but when you have trust you can,be confident in what your saying. Confident in what you believe there is no worry fear or insecurity. I have nothing to worry about because I trust everything is going to be okay. No more trust issues because I can be confident that everything's okay.