Luke 23:33-34

And when they had come to the place called Calvary, there they crucified Him, and the criminals, one on the right hand and the other on the left. 34 Then Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do.”[a]
And they divided His garments and cast lots.

Sometimes people hurt us and they don't even realize that they are hurting us because they are blinded by the things of this world. They may even hurt you even if you are there to do them good like Jesus dying for our sins. Sometimes its because they are drowning in their own hurt like the saying goes "hurt people hurt people". Jesus even on the cross asked God who is love to forgive those around him for they know not what they do. Sometimes people who are sick don't know that they are sick because the hands they where dealt never showed them any other type of way to view life. Say you live in a home where your father left, then every man your mother dates they leave, you later get get in to other relationships and those men leave, and the cycle repeats itself. But then Jesus comes around what do you think that you are going to believe that he is just the same but I thank God that Jesus is better then man. Here is the story of the woman at the well:

John 4:1-26 1 Therefore, when the Lord knew that the Pharisees had heard that Jesus made and baptized more disciples than John 2 (though Jesus Himself did not baptize, but His disciples), 3 He left Judea and departed again to Galilee. 4 But He needed to go through Samaria.
5 So He came to a city of Samaria which is called Sychar, near the plot of ground that Jacob gave to his son Joseph. 6 Now Jacob’s well was there. Jesus therefore, being wearied from His journey, sat thus by the well. It was about the sixth hour.
7 A woman of Samaria came to draw water. Jesus said to her, “Give Me a drink.” 8 For His disciples had gone away into the city to buy food.
9 Then the woman of Samaria said to Him, “How is it that You, being a Jew, ask a drink from me, a Samaritan woman?” For Jews have no dealings with Samaritans.
10 Jesus answered and said to her, “If you knew the gift of God, and who it is who says to you, ‘Give Me a drink,’ you would have asked Him, and He would have given you living water.”
11 The woman said to Him, “Sir, You have nothing to draw with, and the well is deep. Where then do You get that living water? 12 Are You greater than our father Jacob, who gave us the well, and drank from it himself, as well as his sons and his livestock?”
13 Jesus answered and said to her, “Whoever drinks of this water will thirst again, 14 but whoever drinks of the water that I shall give him will never thirst. But the water that I shall give him will become in him a fountain of water springing up into everlasting life.”
15 The woman said to Him, “Sir, give me this water, that I may not thirst, nor come here to draw.”
16 Jesus said to her, “Go, call your husband, and come here.”
17 The woman answered and said, “I have no husband.”
Jesus said to her, “You have well said, ‘I have no husband,’ 18 for you have had five husbands, and the one whom you now have is not your husband; in that you spoke truly.”
19 The woman said to Him, “Sir, I perceive that You are a prophet. 20 Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, and you Jews say that in Jerusalem is the place where one ought to worship.”
21 Jesus said to her, “Woman, believe Me, the hour is coming when you will neither on this mountain, nor in Jerusalem, worship the Father. 22 You worship what you do not know; we know what we worship, for salvation is of the Jews. 23 But the hour is coming, and now is, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth; for the Father is seeking such to worship Him. 24 God is Spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth.”
25 The woman said to Him, “I know that Messiah is coming” (who is called Christ). “When He comes, He will tell us all things.”
26 Jesus said to her, “I who speak to you am He.”

This woman was so use to men just running through her that she was probably bitter and broken. Yet she still held on to men because men kept breaking her down. She had, had 5 husbands and the one she was with when Jesus found her was not her husband. When Jesus first meet her she was cautious of him she said

Then the woman of Samaria said to Him, “How is it that You, being a Jew, ask a drink from me, a Samaritan woman?” For Jews have no dealings with Samaritans.

It just seemed a little off to her. After being hurt for so long her is this man who is different from another culture being nice. If it was modern day I could her, saying boy boo what do you want from me? Don't even try to run game! But Jesus wasn't there for that he was there to set her free from her need to be with men to make her whole to give her that water. She probably valued men more then anything in life Jesus wants to be your everything to make you whole.

13 Jesus answered and said to her, “Whoever drinks of this water will thirst again, 14 but whoever drinks of the water that I shall give him will never thirst. But the water that I shall give him will become in him a fountain of water springing up into everlasting life.”
15 The woman said to Him, “Sir, give me this water, that I may not thirst, nor come here to draw.”

Verse 13 the water that made her stay thirsty was the men in her life they kept her longing it could be the drugs in your life, your family in your life, your friends, cutting, liquor, anything you try to fill your void with.But Jesus is the water that will heal that void in your life. That day she left free no longer longing after men but forgiven and free from her hurt. She may have never knew what she was doing filling her void with other things but Jesus still loved her and was willing to forgive her. So she could move forward in her life.with her walk with Jesus.


Sometime people may never say sorry for what they do but forgiveness is for within you. Who ever it is that hurt you let it go of it and move forward

Matthew 6:15
But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.

God forgives you for all that you do with in your sin you want freedom within your soul let Go and Let God heal you from what others in your past once did to you.