Just Friends

Hidden agenda "opposite sex friendships"

hid·den a·gen·da

a secret or ulterior motive for something.

Luke 8:17

For nothing is hidden that will not be made manifest, nor is anything secret that will not be known and come to light

Now some people have opposite sex "friendships" but have hidden agendas . I've had people tell me they are just friends but they end up sleeping with their friend. No that's not only or just friends. There was more to the story. Only friends is only friends PERIOD. Not I sleep with my friend...the second you sleep with your friend its not "only your friend"

Only friends opposite sex friendships

Ecclesiastes 4:9

Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up!

on·ly

nothing more besides; solely or exclusively.

I've had female friends before it can be a lot of drama. I've had female friends that aren't drama. Now a days I prefer a male friend. I'm not interested in a love affair with my male friend just to hang out

talk laugh. Society doesn't understand this you know how many times I went out with my male best friend and they thought we were together or had love interest. Yet we never had sex or kissed we are only friends. Some people have opposite sex friendships with hidden agendas to sleep with there " so call friend" but some people have a true friend with the opposite sex no sexual agenda. There is a difference.



The Struggles of Having Opposite Sex Friendships

The struggles of having a male best friend is everyone thought he was my boyfriend when we went out to dinner together. I just have an issue with hanging with females they carry so much drama i never had to deal with any drama with my best friend and when it was time to go out i didnt have to wait 10 hours for someone to get ready and dressed to go out... it was you wanna go to ihop okay lets go.. 

Real friends

Proverbs 17:17
17 A friend loves at all times,
and a brother is born for a time of adversity.
friend
a person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual or family relations.

Real friends are hard to find. I have had alot of fake friends but ive had some real ones. Friends that have rode bikes 2 hours to come get me because i was pregnant. Friends who took me in because my family life stunk. Friends who i ate lunch with everyday in college friends who no matter where life takes us we will always remain friends. Friends that make life so much more worth living. Its great to have a real friend. To have care love and support