Life Causes People to Change!!

He isnt ever going to change I dont want to even be bothered with him! 

Luke 15:13 And not many days after the younger son gathered all together, and took his journey into a far country, and there wasted his substance with riotous living.

Have you ever just lost hope in someone at first you tolerated it because you loved them. Yet then it started to get old!! All the lies and excuses!I cant because i dont have time for this because. Excuses Excuses Excuses! You even changed yourself to see if it was you but the reality still remained. You made some great changes to better yourself though. Yet still the point of the matter of the fact is that person is really hopeless in your life! And at this point you dont even want to be bothered with this person anymore. You gave them chance after chance and even made tons of excuses yourself for their behavior. You looked stupid and everyone watched you look stupid. I dont believe he will ever change and honestly i dont want to be bothered with him!


Life causes people to change

Luke 15:14-16 And when he had spent all, there arose a mighty famine in that land; and he began to be in want.15 And he went and joined himself to a citizen of that country; and he sent him into his fields to feed swine.16 And he would fain have filled his belly with the husks that the swine did eat: and no man gave unto him.

Sometimes it takes people losing things and going through some things in life for them to want to change. To open their eyes to realize something has to give. I can't do this anymore. They are faced with only one way to go. Either stay in rock bottom or go up! MEaning they have to make some type of change in their life in order for their to be a difference or else their will never any change they will remain in the same place. Sometimes you dont have to try to help people change life will change them on its own!


He's ready for change!

Luke 15: 17 And when he came to himself, he said, How many hired servants of my father's have bread enough and to spare, and I perish with hunger!

Honestly if this was the person in my life that ive been praying for change in id probably say i doubt it. Theres no way they want to change. Yet just because i dont believe it doesnt mean it doesnt happen people change everyday. I remember when i was A HOPELESS CAUSE! The day I opened my eyes and changed. I never wanted to look back and go back to the way i was because i really was ready for change. Yet you will never change unless your truly ready. As for my case i guess im a thomas right now because I wont believe it until i see it because i am fed up. Yet good for them if they are ready to change!



Are you willing to accept him back?

Luke 15:20 And he arose, and came to his father. But when he was yet a great way off, his father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him.

To each is own. You have to ask yourself if thats something your willing to do this is your choice. God made the choice to forgive us and take us back just as the father did the prodigal. He had compassion well are you willing to have compassion? Are you willing to be understanding. Are you willing to care? Are you willing to move forward? Some will say no. Its not what God would do he would accept you back but like it said its your choice you can either be like the prodigals brother or be like the father forgive accept and move forward. Or be angry not forgive and keep it moving.